What do men want from a woman? 13 characteristics of the ultimate dream woman

Amelia Mia
8 min readJun 20, 2021
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“What do men want from a woman?” is undoubtedly one of the most common questions one asks today.

Are they only interested in your appearance and don’t they care about your personality?

Are you only interested in the so-called “model women”?

None of this is true. Well, partly yes, but what men really want is a lot simpler than you might have thought — and don’t worry, I’ll help you understand it better.

How many times have you labeled men as assholes who only think of one thing (getting your laundry done) and immediately associated that with their only interest in your looks and nothing else?

How many times have you run into emotionally unreachable men or guys who have no idea what they want, and how often have you thought that you will never understand them because they don’t understand themselves?

I know that feeling. I’ve been through the same thing umpteen times and asked myself the same question over and over again: “What do men really want from a woman?

There are really men out there who just want to do your laundry, and there are men who have no idea what they really want right now, but these men are just going through a phase that has nothing to do with what they really want from you.

They are just not ready for a relationship or anything more serious than physical contact, which doesn’t mean they will stay that way forever.

And you definitely don’t want to waste your time with men like that, so you don’t need to worry about their preferences.

Rather, you should look at the bigger picture.

If you ask any grown man out there what he really wants in a woman (assuming he’s confident and not just interested in mediocre romances), he’ll tell you he wants the right woman, a woman who suits him Side stands, a woman who loves him just as unconditionally as he loves her.

The only difference is that some men will realize this sooner and others later.

At some point each and every one of them gets to the same point.



Amelia Mia

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